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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] What is the time limit of your agreement?

I met my boyfriends kids after four or five months.[/quote]

Six months.[/quote]

That's about the time when I met my DH's kids.  By then they had obviously heard about me but hadn't met me yet.   After months of dating, we were both fairly committed to the relationship.  (For the record, the kids mother had already moved her love interest into the home when the divorce was final two years earlier so the kids were living with her boyfriend and her.)

The first time I met his teenage kids his daughter took one look at me, gave me the eye of death, never looked directly at me again, and didn't say a word to me the rest of the evening.  His son appeared as though he was more open to me (direct eye contact, smiled, etc.) but appeared conflicted because of his sister's behavior.   Keep in mind we were six months in and in an exclusive relationship.  I was crushed.

We're now almost two decades in and it hasn't changed.  SD still has no interest in knowing me as a person, there are grandkids in the picture, and I'm still on the outs and will never be accepted.  It's not an easy way to start heading into your sunset years of life.      [/quote]

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