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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like the idea of collaborative divorce. But what if he drafts his project of division of assets, and, if I don't like it, just tells "want more -go to court"? Collaborative divorce implies he would agree to it, right? How did you make your ext husband agree to it?

It's not possible to transfer US assets. It's real estate on both our names. His salary comes to join account, we spend money from that account on everyday expenses.

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If collaborative divorce does not work then yes, you go to court.

I did not do collaborative divorce. We technically did mediation. But it was not a true mediation. We just decided ourselves and told them to write it up. Attorneys reviewed docs before we signed. I agreed to less. It was cheaper than it would have been to fight him for exactly half. I likely would have gotten less that I got if we did traditional litigation. Mediation is cheaper than collaborative divorce. Collaborative divorce is for people who don't want to talk about terms...so their attorneys do it on their behalf. We could talk about terms and I was not willing to fight and when I realized I would lose more $ fighting. Attorneys in collaborative divorce (or the two of you in mediation) can agree to anything in the terms for the divorce decree and stay out of court.[/quote]

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