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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote][quote]You should find out why your wife is self medicating with food. It may be what you are doing or not doing. Happy wives don't self medicate with booze and food. It's a symptom of her emotional state- she is not OK. Why? 
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The booze and food is her self medicating... why? [/quote]

1+. Yeah, I feel like OP and many PPs are missing the forest for the trees.  DW goes her whole life relatively healthy and then 5 years after last kid (so she's at least in her late 30's) she's just like *about face* I'mma gonna get fat for no reason?? I can only go by the OP, but he makes it sound like this was a new development not a fundamental character trait or lack of discipline overall.  So it is a little off-putting that you have no concern about the reasons for this, OP! I would bet the weight gain is the symptom of what is going on (alcoholism?), not the substance.[/quote]

I’d dig into why she’s so unhappy. If it’s kid stress, see how you can help out.

Also, maybe plan a nice getaway for just you and her that includes a beach. Always provides some extra incentive.

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