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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is such a tough situation. I have friends with au pairs who are in similar straights. I honestly don't know what is fair. The nanny is an adult who has to make decisions about herself. What she does impacts you. On the one hand, it seems your right to protect your family, and that means extreme measures. It also seems crazy to pay someone 24-7 for doing what is reasonable under the circumstances (staying with you). On the other, it doesn't seem reasonable to demand she stay - or even humane, given she is an adult. What would happen if you presented her with these thoughts?[/quote] We have had several discussions with her now over the last few weeks The big disconnect is that we disagree on the definition of social distancing We can’t and won’t control what she does outside of our home but we’re not going to take any chances either [/quote]
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