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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There’s a statewide moratorium on evictions in CA (currently) through May 31st. There may be more going on with your mom and her previous living situation (or it’s possible she was taken advantage of). Are you certain that she was living alone?

Are you certain she was working recently?

Regardless of the problems behind this situation I’m not sure a used car would be the best use of financial resources. I would look up resources for transient individuals in the city she’s located in currently in CA and see what resources exist. It may be possible to get a space at a shelter or a hostel. Aside from that it would seem better to spend the money on trying to get her to a city where a family member lives, now that she’s filed for early retirement. [/quote]

She became homeless right before COVID. Yes she was living alone renting a mother in law type suite. Yes, positive she was working at the airport recently.

Shelters are full. As much as mom and I don't get along I think a move to VA would be in her best interest as a long term solution. I'm just trying to figure out how to help her today/tomorrow/immediately. [/quote]

Flights from LAX to Dulles are $132 on American Airlines.

Buy the ticket. Get her on a plane today. Call a tow company and have them drop the truck at a salvage yard.

Problem solved.[/quote]
+1   I understand OP's hesitancy to have her mom live with her FT, but this can be just a temporary arrangement until covid crisis passes (at least the worst of it).  Your landlord won't kick you out for having an extra person stay with you for a few months.

Start looking for a 55+ apt for her right now.   She needs to swallow her pride and just come here. Otherwise, she will end up on the streets permanently.  [/quote]

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