Reply to DH talks multiple times a day to a woman he used to work with

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "DH talks multiple times a day to a woman he used to work with"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm guessing that the speaking with you there just reflects his own self deception and denial/desire to rationalize it as simply a friendship. (Similar to poster who said her husband integrated AP her into family as a "friend").[b] It's like two parallel tracks travelling at the same time, his budding involvement with her and his relationship with you.  They are kept separate even to him on some psychological level,  until of course they collide. Then it is chaos and wreckage and he cries. Ask me how I know[/b].[/quote]

I'm the PP, and yes. I feel like this post should go in the "mindset of a cheater" thread because it is so true. There's a the "separate track" phenomenon and also just a shocking failure to think about consequences or engage in any forward planning at all.

When my ex finally did the one last thing that basically forced me to give up marriage counseling and trying to save the marriage, I kept asking, "What did you think was going to happen?" and he kept saying, "I didn't really think about it."[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics