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[quote=Anonymous][quote] never understood cheaters and judged them harshly until I became one myself. Life is complicated. Humans are imperfect and selfish. Initiating divorce is not nearly as easy as it looks on TV.

All I can say is don’t judge until you have walked in another’s shoes. Though that will fall on deaf ears on this sanctimonious forum where no one has ever done wrong.

I’ve learned in life to never say never.

Yup. I was cheated on several times and it was the worst, most devastating thing ever to me.

Then one time years later I cheated and it was like a light bulb went off in my head. Understanding it from the other side washed away so much hurt that I still carried from my partner's past cheating.[/quote]

I can’t believe anyone who has been in a monogamous relationship and was cheated on would ever choose to inflict that pain on their partner and the family of their AP.  There is nothing to excuse it, and rationalizing it just shows you are all about yourself.  Massive character defect.[/quote]

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