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Reply to "I'm afraid I've seriously damaged my children's lives - need perspective "
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[quote=Anonymous]OP I have another perspective on this. Your post originally expressed concern for your children. Like your children, I had a dad who was basically a passive garbage bag who blamed everyone else for his problems and made no effort to be a real father to me. I did find a way through this, and that was mostly by cutting out the idea of having a relationship with my father. I am in my 30s now and when he calls I am cordial but I am pretty uninterested in a relationship with him. He is not a stable or mentally well person and I am not interested in having his problems be a part of my life, which is in order. Your children will hopefully turn out ok, and part of that may include not having you in their lives.[/quote]
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