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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Weird. Women / Girls don't need a car door opened for them. It is very patriarchal and not someone people do now. Girls can open their own car doors believe it or not![/quote]

Why can’t people be nice without it being turned into a sexist act of disrespect.[/quote]

Don't worry. Men don't like the poster you're addressing. I guarantee it.[/quote]

There are lots of men who are attracted to the helpless, weak, needy woman because then they can be the 'guy' who is the knight in shining at or and they can be the provider / protector for sure. However there are also other men who are attracted to strong competent women who see themselves as an equal. Those guys may be harder to find if thy have been raised to think women need their help but they are out there.[/quote]

Or It could be nice to hold the door so a woman could gather her dress without it dragging across curb or door of car,  or to allow her to comfortable get in a car while wearing a dress/skirt or to show that I value her by doing something simple and kind.  It doesn’t mean I feel like she any less that me or need a knights in shining armor.  It doesn’t make her appear weak in my eyes.  It is a kind thing to do.  If my wife gets a glass out of cabinet for me, does that imply I am incapable of doing it myself, no.

My wife is the strongest person I know.  She doesn’t need me to do anything for her, but she accepts my kindness it is a part of me.

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