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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree this is a distasteful thing to say and minimizes the suffering of widows, a situation OP can't really claim to understand (and admits).[/quote]

As a widow, I disagree.  I've also got kids with SN.  Misery, hardship and invisibility are not competitions.  Something that devastates me could be a bump in the road for someone else.  It doesn't make me unreasonable or weak.  It doesn't make the other person super strong or more resilient.  It just makes us different.

No one, widow or divorcee or parent to kids with SN, gets to define who is more impacted.  If you're offended, you are choosing to be.[/quote]

Sounds like you agree with me then, since it is OP who is saying it's easier.[/quote]

I'm the PP you are responding to.  If you construe what I've written to mean that I agree with you, well, I feel sorry for anyone who has a relationship with you, especially a relationship by birth.

Based on what OP has written, I agree that it would have been easier for OP if her marital relationship ended because of death rather than infidelity and an STD. If can't imagine why that would be the case, you lack imagination and compassion.  It's yet another indication that we should pity anyone who has a relationship with you.  [/quote]

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