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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Being privileged doesn’t mean anything if there is something fundamentally wrong in the household. [b]When kids act out - regardless of the parents good lucks and wealth - you have to think that there’s something disturbing about their childhood.[/b] Could be anything from grandpa is an alcoholic to only the nanny’s took care of me to sexual abuse. We will never know. We will only see the results and that goes for any family. [/quote] [quote=Anonymous] https://www.eonline.com/news/1120858/cindy-crawford-s-son-presley-gerber-unveils-dramatic-face-tattoo He’s all ready for prison now. What a waste of genetics. [b]What is wrong with Cindy and Rande?[/b] Their kids - now adults - grew up privileged and are now a hot mess. One tries to look and sound like a street gangster, the other is vacant and anorexic. I just don’t get it.[/quote] I disagree with the bolded statements. Sometimes it has nothing to do with the parents or the upbringing. [/quote] So … you think he was BORN this way? Highly doubtful. I have worked for years with troubled and high risk kids. In the argument of nature versus nurture, [b]I have yet to see a troubled or high risk child where the problem stemmed from nature.[/b] Certainly some of this young man's nature is exerting its influence but [b]his parents had a responsibility to see and respond to this child's specific needs, and they failed in a very obvious way as he is demonstrating.[/b][/quote] +1 These situations are easier to understand if you take "parenting" and view it as a separate skill set that people either have or don't have, whether or not the parents are kind/productive/whatever in other aspects of their lives.[/quote] Do you guys also blame parents when their kids commit suicide? Maybe you should spend some time with the many parents who spend years desperately trying to find hell for their kids’ mental heath issue. Therapy, medication, love, discipline, boundaries.....sometimes all of that only mitigates the problem, not cure it. I don’t know what’s going on with this kid or his parents.[/quote] Suicide is a separate issue. And sometimes, yes, it is a result of parenting or lack there of. Not every parent of a suicide victim was doing everything you listed to help their child. [/quote] +1 I am the "BORN" poster. I agree with the poster above. I will go further to say that in my work I have [u]never[/u] seen a child BORN predisposed to commit suicide, this includes children who are depressed or suffer from depression.[/quote]
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