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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Anonymous wrote:
I was a mistress once in my 20’s and the way I rationalized it is that I did not want to break up the marriage - I was just having fun. I’m happily married now with kids and he seems happily married as well (FB). I think be went through a rough patch with his life when his children were young and that is when we were seeing each other. No idea if he is faithful now. But again, I didn’t and don’t feel guilty because it was relatively brief and I wasn’t breaking up a family.

And if karma bites you?

DP but I don't worry about karma--I've always been faithful in my committed relationships. Not my business to police anyone else's fidelity and I never gave it a second thought.[/quote]

But Isn’t is everyone’s job as just a human, a member of society, to be a decent person?  You and the PP with no regret fail at that if you are knowingly sleeping with someone else’s spouse.  It is absolutely a huge betrayal by the person who took their vows, but it’s a different kind of crappy from the AP with blinders on who willlfully ignores the fact that their actions are/may have a huge negative impact on another person/family.  You know, the whole treat others how you would like to be treated?  Knowingly sleeping with someone else’s spouse definitely demonstrates a lack of character.[/quote]

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