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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hold up- four pages of inpatient, boarding school, wilderness programs and pearl clutching. Am I the only one who thinks this is normal right of passage 16 year old behavior and that he will be fine? Maybe he won’t get into a top 20 school but there are thousands of other choices. Jeez Louise he is a teenager. Teenagers suck sometimes then they turn 25 and life gets better. Saying this as a mom of a 25 year old. He smoked pot, attended music festivals, did some harder drugs, brought more girls home for the night than I can remember, and brought some sleepless nights to his parents but he also attended undergrad with a scholarship, graduated with a triple major in four years, went to grad school and got a good paying job. If your kid is attending school and has passing grades cut him some slack. [/quote] OP says her child is spiraling. As a parent who was in the same shoes, you have no idea how bad it can get in a very short time. Apparently your child did not spiral and that’s wonderful for your family. But for heavens sakes, you have nothing to offer. Regardless of the suggestion, at least people are trying to help OP. On another note. People have mentioned wilderness programs, residential treatment and military program. There are programs that combine the parts of each of these that led to the recommendation. Programs that are based outdoors, with strict standards and structure and robust therapy. That is what put my son back on track. [/quote]
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