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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sound like my marriage, except we sleep in the same bed without touching.  It’s pretty insane.  Oh, and we spent so a family thing together on the weekends because his anxiety (which manifests as anger) makes him so miserable to be around.

Why do I stay?  Because our kid is 6 and DH is SO moody and so angry all the time that I can’t sentence my kid to 50% of his time outside school alone with someone who gives him the silent treatment or rages at him.  When he gets like that now, I try to clear us out of the house.

It’s miserable but I honestly don’t know what else I can do.  I lived with a raging, moody, unpredictable mother.  He was nothing like this when we dated.  But it’s been years now and has y gotten better.  I don’t want to live like this and I know it’s not good, but I feel like I’m choosing the least worst of two very bad options.   Has anyone else been in a similar situation?[/quote]

I mean, has it occurred to you that DH is moody and angry because he’s trapped in this dysfunctional “marriage” where he shares a bed with a roommate and probably gets no sex. Willing to bet that despite that he also gets questioned on his whereabouts and doings and everything else. What’s NOT to be moody about!![/quote]

That guy above has ASD. 100%.  
You do not leave a young kid, tween, or teen (or grandkid) with him for long. Would drive a kid nuts and be physically unsafe due to accident prone nature. No way.[/quote]

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