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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, OP, I am a man in a similar boat as you but I had an affair - having one now.  Sleeping in the guest room too.  I tried everything, then I realized that my wife just is fine with the status quo and really has no sexual desire at all (or for me, it doesn't really matter).

It's not ideal but I am with my family and we get along better oddly enough.  I assume she suspects something, she isn't that naive to think a man with options is going to be celibate.

What is your hang up about an affair?  Worst that happens is you get caught and divorce anyway.  It's all no fault.  And perhaps when you have a spring in your step again, she will find you more attractive.[/quote]

Are you kidding me?  You're encouraging someone else to have an affair like it's no big deal?  Hello, it's wrong if your wife hasn't agreed to it.

What if this happened to your daughter and she's hurt?  Whose side will you take at that time: your daughter or the cheater?   I'm serious: Will your loyalty be with your daughter?

Y o u are a sociopath to talk so n poo nonchalantly about encouraging someone else to cheat.  [/quote]

Agree. Cheating is not the solution. Instead he should first declare the marriage open, and THEN go out and meet his needs.

If my daughter did not want sex with her husband, I would not feel any different because opening this marriage is the only way to save it.[/quote]

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