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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My parents just “loaned “ my brother $100k for a house. I know he is struggling and we aren’t but it feels like he is being rewarded for making bad choices.[/quote]

OP here. This. The grandson chose an expensive out-of-state school, and my kids chose in-state public schools and received $20,000 and $36,000 respectively in merit-based scholarships. They got jobs to pay for expenses. The grandson couldn’t get a job for a long time and when he did, kept getting fired. His father (my BIL) couldn’t help him because he had bad credit (bankruptcy) and didn’t make a lot of money because of no college education. My husband and I scrimped and saved money in 529 plans from the kids’ infancy to pay for college.[/quote]

You are a shit person. I hope your kids manage to grow into a better person that you seem to be. [/quote]

While I agree that Op and her kids have zero "right" to FIL's money, I also think that FIL treating his grandchildren so inequitably is not fair.  If the kid was trying, that would be one thing and I'm sure that Op would have some sympathy for his situation.  Sadly, that is not the case.[/quote]

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