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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Moving in with someone you're not married to when you're a mom with kids living at home is a terrible idea.  If he doesn't want to marry you, you shouldn't be trying to add him into your sons' home. Sorry. [/quote]

This. You keep talking about "moving in together", "sharing finances" but I don't hear marriage at all. If you make more money than him, can support yourself and your children and you're not engaged, you shouldn't have your BF move in like couples who don't have kids. You say everyone gets along, but the dynamic would be different if you all lived in the same house.

He likes things as they are. And there is no "wrong" in that. He has TOLD you he feels pressured. You diminish that altogether and want to make it a wrong/right situation. He says he likes things as they are - you apparently don't like what you're hearing. So for everyone saying "sh*t or get off the pot" - that should be directed at OP, not the BF. He's made himself clear - and you simply want him to feel something that he doesn't. Decide if status quo works for you - if it doesn't - be an adult and break up with him. You have three boys - who are watching your decision making skills - keep that in mind as you're navigating through this relationship.[/quote]

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