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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you try to put your foot down and tell dh to shut up or else? I suspect you are too scared to do it. Divorce is the only way for you to leave this abuser.[/quote]

OP: Six months ago I told DH he needed to get professional help or else we were done.  I originally thought he had some type of mental disorder.  He is now in therapy, and there have been improvements (e.g., the name-calling has stopped for the most part), but the controlling nature is still there.[/quote]

OP I'm so sorry.

Please, please reread these posts.

Your husband will never, ever really change.

Controlling behavior is not something that gets better, it always escalates. When it does it will be worse than before. He is just bottling it up.

I know this this super hard.

First and foremost birth control please, please. It will be that much harder to leave with a child not to mention bringing a child into a household like this.

Get your self a credit card, your name only. And a PO Box.  Start putting visa pre paid cards in there small amounts at a time. Keep the key outside of the house so he will not find it.

Have an escape plan. Let one of your neighbors know that if the outside light is on for a long time they should call the police for a welfare check. Use the porch light maybe.

I am sorry to be what some might think as dramatic, [b]but I see this alot in the court house[/b].

Please restart your life you are worth it!
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What do you do in the court house?[/quote]

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