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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he was okay with me self satisfying once or twice a week, yes it’s fine.

I could not imagine tossing my H aside if he did not want sex.

[b]Love  is not sex.[/b][/quote]

It can be a way of expressing love. I think your statement is way too general. You can have love without sex or sex without love. You can't generalize about the relationship between the two. [/quote]

No it’s not. It’s a way to satisfy a physical pleasure. It’s not love.[/quote]

It can be purely about physical pleasure, but it can also be a powerful way of expressing love. Not the only way to express love, of course, but a powerful way.

I don't know why that's controversial. [/quote]

It’s one way.., not the only way, why is that controversial.
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When did I say it was the only way? PPs have said "It's a way to satisfy physical pleasure. It's not love." That's simply untrue. [/quote]

It’s very true. It’s not love. It’s a way to physically enjoy each other... just like a massage, or drinking champagne or enjoying a dance.... it’s not love:

Its not necessary for love.[/quote]

It’s not necessary for you. That’s fine. Stop assuming that you speak for everyone. Many people find sexual intimacy to be a necessary component of romantic love. It sounds like you are either anti sex or have at some point had someone threaten to withhold love if you didn’t have sex with them. Both are very sad. [/quote]

You obviously have not read from the top. I love sex.

It’s not. necessary, period... it’s science.

Just like gifts are not necessary or word of affirmation. You have been socialized to believe these things are necessary

It’s sad you are so dependent on another’s actions to feel love.[/quote]

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