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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will agree that I do not find 95% of the men I randomly see attractive.  Very few men really do it for me.  Maybe I'm unusual in that regard but I doubt it.[/quote]

This is totally normal[b] for women[/b]. You are NOT unusual.[/quote]

If this is so true, would not see so many men in relationships or married. Total red pill that makes no sense. So all these women are with men they do not find attractive? [/quote]
The subject thread is about [b]initial[/b] (ie physical) attraction. And the fact is, not too many woman would ever look at a guy (any guy) and think to herself "[i]I am [b]physically attracted[/b] to that guy[/i]". Only a tiny fraction of men ever inspire such thoughts in women (any women). Instead, most marriages and relationships come about because the guy pursues her, then (despite little to zero [b]physical attraction[/b]) she gets to know him and her attraction for him develops based on other things (NOT his physical appearance).

Men don't work that way at all. Most men are physically attracted to women everywhere, and it is quite rare that a man would EVER date a women where that initial PHYSICAL attraction is absent.[/quote]

NP. Is this something you've read somewhere? Are you a woman? Have women told you this?

I'm a woman and in my experience and those of my female friends, it's physical attraction first that's the initial spark. I was extremely physically attracted to my DH when I saw his picture on a dating app and then even more when I met him in person. I was physically attracted to all four men I've seriously dated in my life. Same for every woman I've met and talked to about this subject. I have single friends who are out there dating and they dismiss lots of good-on-paper guys because there's no attraction on their part. I'm sure the attraction deepens the more you get to know and like the person, and lessens if you start to pick up on negative personalities, etc. I think this is just part of human nature.[/quote]

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