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[quote=Anonymous]The WSJ has an article last weekend about negative vs positive interactions. The authors noted that people in happy marriages accept each other and pull together. For example, when your partner makes a mistake, don’t berate them or act put out. Instead, you work together to fix it, without negative judgments. It’s all about accepting each other as you are. Another thing I’ve learned is how to meet my DH’s needs. Not what I think are his needs, but what he actually needs. I thought my DH needed me to be the hyper competent independent woman that I have always been. But it turns out that he likes to feel needed for emotional support. Once I learned how to rely on him more, he felt happier. Go figure.[/quote]
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