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[quote=Anonymous]Many of you are just lucky and don’t get it. My MIL is not a bad person and we don’t have major issues, but she’s not easy to be close to. Her visits are stressful and yes, I do vent online. She makes snarky comments about our home and my body, is not a nice house guest (super messy and doesn’t pick up after herself), and is very hands off with the children, which is fine, they aren’t her children. But she is constantly complaining she’s hurt and offended they aren’t more excited to see her when she visits. Lady, you can bring towers upon towers of gifts, but if you spend your visit sipping wine on the couch instead of playing with the baby and toddler, they aren’t going to feel close to you. She arrives unhappy, complains and snarks at us, and leaves unhappy - and we all feel relieved. I feel sorry for her because she’s lonely and we are all she has. I am civil and welcoming and just bite my tongue 99% of the time. But I’m not going to go out of my way for someone who is not particularly nice to me and never has been. [/quote]

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