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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would want nominal rent unless I were very close to the niece, to defray utilities and general hassle. I think it’s reasonable and will make you feel better about the arrangement. Her family is saving a ton by having her stay with you. It sounds like she’s not especially sensitive or careful, so you will have a little cushion when, inevitably, she breaks stuff or damages it. I’d also want to specify meal arrangements and house rules (does she have to be home at a certain time? Should she text if she’ll be out past midnight? Can she have friends come hang out at the house?) ahead of time. [/quote]

In case I sound harsh with the above response I want to say that I have a teen with aspergers and living with him presents challenges that make this a pretty big imposition. You are very likely going to have to provide more support and companionship and coaching than you’d provide to a typical niece, and tolerate some quirky behaviors — and honestly if you aren’t used to it, several months of it will be a lot. So I’m a yes on rent, or at the very least groceries paid by her parents.[/quote]

+1. My DD with Aspergers loves to eat, take long, hot showers and insists on changing her clothes often. This translates to significant food, utility and personal hygiene costs.  I would also talk to her parents about a nominal rent. [/quote]

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