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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think both you and your DH handled it perfectly. It's laughable. If it's still bothering you and if you are close with her, then I see no issue with you telling her how her comment made you feel.[/quote] This. It is a hurtful comment as she is implying that you are abandoning your children even if she isn't saying your name. Your right to be offended however you are also right that saying something might create tension unnecessarily. I would wait and try to ignore unless she brings it up again and then I would let her know how you feel and that her comments are not wanted. [b]If she continues to needle you on this then speak up because let's face it, if she isn't considering your feelings then you don't need to protect hers.[/b] [/quote] This. Also, how are you “close” to someone who has been making comments like this over the years? What makes you close? She obviously has passive aggressive feelings toward you. Bottom line is ...she does not respect you. I would avoid her from here on out.[/quote]
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