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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This isn't about introversion OP. She may be calling it that but it isn't.

Most introverts can be as social as they need to be for an event or for work or for a holiday. They likely find it exhausting and they can't get to get away from it but in the moment they can be social. Introverts have a range of social skills - some can put on an almost social butterfly image, others are quieter but they still mix and mingle.

I know dozens of introverts and none act the way your wife does. It is possible she just isn't someone to put effort in. She doesn't care what people think, doesn't like people, doesn't want to put effort in, and doesn't have great social skills. Or maybe she could have a personality disorder - avoidant personality disorder?

At the end of the day it sounds like she has been like this for a long time and isn't invested in changing which makes it your problem and not hers. You have to decide if you want to live your life with someone who won't socialize or interact with others. Don't have kids with her because that is not a good trait for a parent. Your kids will end up isolated as well.

It might be time to move on and kind someone more compatible. [/quote]

We have a child. So far, it doesn’t seem like she’s picked up her traits.[/quote]

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