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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Very well said OP. I’ve found that my kids have gained a lot of confidence from doing things for themselves. Even if it takes a bit longer sometimes- it’s hard to give them the space/time they need to get their coats zipped up or whatever, but it is so worth it!

How do you handle a situation where the preschool aged child insists upon doing it themselves but for health/hygiene reasons an adult has to assist? How do you step in and help? [/quote]

Assuming we are talking about wiping after she poops,  I would have her do it first (and second and third—keep asking her to check that the paper is clean) and you have to do a “wipe check” to show her what a great job she’s done. If the first check doesn’t come clean, then say “oops, didn’t get enough paper. I have to do another check.” If it’s something like hand washing, I would make it a silly game...”oh we are at the spa and we need fancy FANCY bubbles, more bubbles! Ooh la la.” Making it a game or making it silly may help them feel like it’s less of a chore. And remember that some kids insist on things, but as the adults in charge we have the final call. Like we wouldn’t let them decide not to wear a bike helmet or not get in their car seat, they can decide on some things (what they wear, how much they eat), but not others (like hygiene and health related choices). You’re right, it is so worth it! Sounds like you’re doing a great job.

—OP[/quote]

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