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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I am in a similar situation except my mom refuses to get divorced.  She knows my dad is having a long term affair with someone abroad.  My siblings and I sat with her and confronted my dad about it.  He lied through his teeth,  it was sweating (literally) the whole time.  This woman was stupid enough to post the gifts on FB that he would buy her and we have many relatives abroad that also know what’s going on (very embarrassing).

I feel bad for my mom, and have offered to with her to talk to a lawyer numerous times. She won’t go, she doesn’t want to give up her lifestyle.  She hasn’t worked in nearly 30 years and doesn’t want to give up her big house and luxury car.  Fine, her choice.  But I am so sick of hearing her complain about my dad.  She has been doing it for decades.  And she truly believes that as her daughter I am obligated to listen to her bitch and moan.  I kept repeating the same line any time she would start about my dad: “you need to talk to a therapist about this.” And then I would change the subject.  After about 6 months of this she finally got the point.  She goes to one now. Although it’s debatable how much it is really helping.  She brings my dad up occasionally but I just say, “I am not the person to talk to about this.”  And I repeat it.  That’s all you can really do.  [/quote]

Do you spend time with your dad and the AP like OP?

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