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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“Santa has nothing to do with Christ or Christianity or religion or faith. What is wrong with you? it is like the Easter Bunny or tooth fairy. It isn't real and has nothing at all, zero, zilch to do with faith. You are woefully ignorant about Christianity. “

I am Christian. Of course I know he is not tied into the Christ story (as I said in the message you replied to) although I do think he has become a symbol of Christmas, which is a Christian holiday. The fact that lots of atheists also culturally celebrate Christmas does not make it not a Christian holiday.

And what we are talking about is not a philosophical discussion of faith among grown ups - it is how to explain to small children not to say cruel things.

[b]I would not tolerate my child telling a Jewish person that Hanukkah is a sham because there is no way oil would have lasted that long or that Passover is a crock because there is no “Angel of death” that kills only Egyptian babies. Because it is rude and disrespectful to do that. And I think this “respect for other religions” approach would resonate more strongly with my kids than if I just said “it’s a secret” or “it’s a lie so go ahead and say what you want”.[/b] [/quote]

Exactly![/quote]

NP. You guys are missing the point. If your kids tried to tell my kids that Hanukkah is a sham because oil doesn't last that long they would say Exactly! Oil doesn't last that long, but it did! A miracle from G-d! That is the whole point of the holiday.

Here's a tip. If your kid comes home and tells you someone said Santa isn't real, you could say "In our family we believe that he is." This is the kind of response that parents who observe non majority religions give their kids all. the. time. If you can't choke those words out, then you need to rethink what you are doing with the whole Santa thing anyway.[/quote]

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