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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here who had the uncle with the ranch.

Other PPs, don't get off track on the guy's past.  OP's issue is that her mom covered it up, and OP has been putting little kids in her care and his orbit.  And whether or not that's perfectly safe is not the issue.  OP's mom's LYING is the issue.

OP, listen. Go to the wedding and take your kids too.  You will have to come to a reckoning about your "new" relationship with your mom--the one where you have realized that she can lie to you.  But don't do it on their wedding day.

Don't do it on their wedding day because you are punishing yourself, your kids, the boyfriend, etc, along with your mother...both on that day, and going forward, as your kids may not get time with your mother or the boyfriend in the future if you make this public stand. This is between you and your mom.  Don't conflate this; keep it contained to the real issue and the people involved in the real issue...you and your mom.[/quotops

OP’s mom didn’t lie, she just didn’t disclose something she didn’t think was relevant for her daughter to know.  What if he suffers from ED?  Does the OP need to know that too?  Because neither issue would put the kids in danger.  He’s not a pedophile.  According to his appeal he may not even be considered a “murderer” anymore.  He’s a man who loves OP’s mom.  And someone who it seems like OP would have really liked if she hadn’t gone googling.  If she wants to clutch her pearls and stand on her high horse in judgment to never have a relationship with her mom again than that is her choice.  A very silly one if you ask me. Thanks [/quote]

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