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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]People do notice sizes in gifts and ascribe meaning to them. [/b]My SIL had gotten fat then lost some weight and we gave her a sweater. She cried because we gave her a medium sized sweater. She thought the gift was that we guessed she was that size LOL[/quote]

Adult women do this.

I don’t understand the impulse for people going ballistic or boycotting a family get together over this.

Yes, your mom is totally misguided and out of line, op.  Don’t make this a bigger deal than it is.

A group of people assembled in a room aren’t going to be able to see a clothing label.  No one is going to say, “oh look larlo grandma bought you a medium instead of a large because she thinks you’re fat.”

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Misguided isn't the correct word here. Those of you who think this isn't a big deal have clearly been put down and abused enough in your lives that you think nothing of this. Body shaming anyone  is vile and this woman plans to do it in front of a crowd. Don't minimize this. It isn't your pain to deal with.[/quote]

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