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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are 54 and he is 62, I'd say you are very lucky, OP, to have these feelings of love so strongly and so early. I would grab and hold on to the moment too. Life is too short. 
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Life is way too short. I know I made the right decision. Even though we already had a date for tomorrow night, he came to my house tonight, unannounced. He didn't have to do that. We talked for a while on my patio. He asked about my career goals. Things about my life. I know it was in artful the way things unfolded but he doesn't seem at all bothered. I could have been blocked and ghosted. He was so kind to me. Something is happening here. JMO.[/quote]

So your other 2 marriages...was "something happening there" too? Just curious if perhaps you should tap the brakes and gather yourself before number 3 or 43.[/quote]
First marriage, no feelings like I have for this guy. Ever. Still pretty excited though. I knew we would marry the day I met him. Right person at the right time. We took turns pursuing each other. I have no recollection of how or when I Love You was said. Looking back, it seems we both just made a logical decision to marry. Lasted almost 20 years. I thought logical was the way to go. NOT.
Second marriage, he told me he loved me after 2 weeks and I said it back and meant it. Every day with him was like Thanksgiving, July 4th and Christmas all rolled into one. It was then I realized that my first marriage was a mistake for me AND him. This one, he could have been a quadriplegic and I would have taken care of him gladly and never looked at another man. Ever. He never felt remotely how I felt and is a long, sad story.
Anyway, this new guy, I think he knows how to handle things. He will tap the brakes for me. He is plenty interested and not upset at all. [/quote]

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