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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dunno. I have an almost 3.5 year old and a 1 year old. I’m finding this excruciating. I actually think life was easier when the baby was only 8 months old. It’s getting harder as time goes on and baby is more and more mobile and demanding for interaction.

I honestly straight up hate my life. There is so much screaming. I adore my youngest but yearn for when we only had 1.

I guess I think anyone who chooses a 3rd is insane, to an extent.[/quote]

*sobs* I have an 8 month old and a 3 year old and I thought we were past the hardest part *sobs*[/quote]

Uh, mom of a middle schooler here and I can assure you that you have not scratched the surface of hard yet. Sorry.[/quote]

I mean, my stretches of sleep have extended from 1.5 hours at a time to 3 hours at a time and that has been life changing.... hopefully you at least sleep better than I do? I feel like I could conquer the world if I could get one decent night of sleep.... [/quote]

This.  The people who say "It only gets harder!" either had unusually good unicorn babies, or are delusional, or have something going REALLY wrong with their middle-schooler.  My kid is 7 and although parenting is harder in some ways (mostly I worry more as he becomes more independent and social stuff is so important) it is NOTHING like having a newborn, going back to work with a baby that wakes 2x/night and trying to pump, a 1 year old who is sick every 3 weeks, being constantly on for a toddler  ... And I only have an only child, so I can't imagine the hell of having another baby while you have a toddler or preschooler!    I do remember a period where my child was a toddler and still required constant oversight (and my sleep was frequently disrupted due to sickness) when I felt like "yeah, this is HARDER than a newborn, just based on it NEVER STOPPING!"  But to say that having an independent older child who can dress themselves, go to the bathroom, entertain themselves for stretches of time, and even start doing meaningful chores is harder than a baby, is just delusional. [/quote]

Everyone knows ages 6-10, give or take, are the golden years to give you break before you enter the teen years. I have no doubt that my future teens will be MUCH harder than my current baby to preschoolers.[/quote]

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