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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cancel the mom one and do one with with your sister. Sounds like she needs you. [/quote]

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So you think OP should call up a group of women who she's been friends with for 6+ years, and tell them she's not going away with them, because her sister wants to go away and she can't do both trips?

If you got that call, you wouldn't be pissed?  It's not a family emergency, it's not a schedulign snafu, it's just, "Oh, my sister wants this, so I'm bailing on you."

Do you have *any* friends? [/quote]

Nope, the advice was not to cancel the college friends weekend but the one with the mom from her kids' school.  Yes I have friends, and yes I have a sister.  I know where my priorities are, and I would absolutely place my sister's needs (she sounds like this is a rough patch for her) above a mom at my kids' school.  And if a friend had to cancel on me because something came up with family, I would understand and say "lets do it another time."[/quote]

She has been friends with the parents from her oldest's school for 6+ years - from the time they started kindergarten to now, their last year in elementary school.  And this isn't sister's "needs" - where do you get the "rough patch" stuff?  Just making it up?  She's been invited to spend the weekend, or do a weekend in the summer, and neither of those are sufficient.  [/quote]

The rough patch is from the move and the way she reached out to her sister wanting to get together.  It's not rocket science.  [/quote]

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