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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Very Normal suburban family here and[b] we are a bit kinky. Love to see DH with other women . So fun. [/b][/quote]

This is way more than a bit kinky.  And how do you actually find other women who want to have sex with your DH while you watch? [/quote]

This is narcissistic. The PP gets her self confidence from other women "wanting" her husband.  :roll: [/quote]

Maybe, but you really have no idea, do you?  And if she did, what's wrong with that if it works for them both?[/quote]

What do you think the motivation is behind it? Purely sexual? No psychological reason?[/quote]

I know a guy who is into this because he feels his wife should have the best of everything.  He feels he can never be an adequate lover and that she should have more than what “he can provide”.  It is not narcissistic, he genuinely feels that he owes it to his wife.  It creates a weird mental dichotomy for him.[/quote]

Yeah, it's almost always the man's idea.  Often times it goes no further than his idea.  Sometimes a reluctant wife will give in after years indulging it as a fantasy only, and then embrace the idea once she sees what is in it for her.[/quote]

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