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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH didn’t want one either. Said I should get my tubes tied, and pulled up research saying it’s more reliable. Then I reminded him, NO. Now it’s your turn. I’ve carried 3 babies to term, had my body morphed and stretched, have been poked and prodded by doctors, had my lady parts torn up, had my breasts manhandled by lactation consultants and nipples bleeding from breastfeeding. NO.  It’s YOUR TURN buddy.[/quote]

That's how good relationships work. You discussed it and, ostensibly, worked it out. If my husband, for any reason, didn't want to do it, I wouldn't pressure, coerce, force or guilt him into it. [/quote]
So you would instead have to take the onus of birth control?  It takes two to create a baby.  Is he fine with using a condom all the time, which isn't as effective?  If you say you don't want PIV sex because you might get pregnant, would he pressure or guilt you into it?  If the man has an affair because the wife won't put out is he assuming that his AP is using birth control, or will he use a condom?  If she gets pregnant, what then?  Or I guess he's assuming she will take care of the birth control, an so once again, not taking any responsibility whatsoever regarding birth control.[/quote]

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