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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would find this to be a complete waste of money and, frankly, absurd.  Our HHI is well beyond the OP’s, as us that if many of our friends with kids, and nobody (literally nobody) hires this type of care when having a second (or third or fourth) child.  Some had parents come (though that was rare and largely because the parents wanted to).  And even the most helpful parents were there as a second pair of hands, or when both spouses were at work. Never using Parents as an overnight baby nurse.

OP, I do not doubt that you may have wider issues, whether marital or possibly psychological Given your inflated sense of the additional care needed for your second child. I am very sorry for that. This solution, though, strikes me as not addressing these fundamentals. I wish you well, but I don’t think this is the answer.[/quote]

I know so many people who hire a baby or night nurse. I had never heard of it when I lived in flyover country. But since moving here, I have learned it is very common. Everyone where my husband works does it. Literally everyone who has had a baby in the last 10 years. [/quote]

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