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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here, very high drive but I don't have sex with my wife.  It's been 3 months, and it's not worth making a move because it will either be rejected or she will agree and be annoyed.  Interestingly, after a while I really don't see her as sexual now although I can see her as attractive in a platonic way.

I am sure her lack of interest is a good combination of boredom and resentment but I don't take it personally.  I get lots of attention from other women.

For now, I stay but in a few years [b]when last kid is gone, I will leave[/b].[/quote]

Not to hijack the thread but this will not be easy on your kids even then. [/quote]

So, you have other options for me?  I often think cheating is the better option and you kinda confirm that.  [/quote]

Talk to your wife. Don’t lie to her. It’s one thing if there is an agreement. If your introspective enough to recognize her resentment and boredom, do something small for her to show you see her, recognize it, and want to help. If those things aren’t true, leave, but your next partner is going to have the same issues.[/quote]

PP here and you are myopic.  Exactly how do you think this conversation goes?  DH:  Sex is important to me, and I can tell you don't want to have it.  DW: Yes, I know it's important to you, sorry, I am not into it, but if you really need it then fine, just pick I night and I will lie there but don't take too long.  DH:  I don't want to be another chore on your list, it's ok.  DW: Sorry, I can just be in the mood for sex, I have a constant ticker tape in my head and I can't enjoy sex with the kids in the house.  Maybe in 3 months when we have a night off.  DH:  Ok, what about an agreement to open the marriage?  DW: (grabbing fry pan as a weapon)
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