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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here who uses the term first mom, and on further thought I am wondering why you feel the term implies better at all.  I use first to describe all sorts of things without implying they are better.  My first house was tiny, my second house is definitely better.  My first dog was very cute, but frankly the second dog we got after he died is more loyal and well behaved.  I love my first born child, but not more than his subsequent siblings.

So, why do you feel that acknowledging that the other mother came first lessens your role?[/quote]

You cannot compare a house or a dog to a parent or adoption. What kind of person are you?   My child has no other mother at this point.  Those who know where she is buried refused to tell us or give us or her family the body to to bury.  Though I don't think they even buried her.  You make grand assumptions.  [/quote]

My kid also has no other mother, that doesn’t mean he didn’t have one before me, and that she didn’t come into his life first.  I have no idea how the fact that I happen to know where my child’s first mother is buried has to do with that.[/quote]

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