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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you and your parents always so dramatic about things like this. 
Sounds like she has a life, seems happy and is living it. 
just do the same. 
If you want to see her, plan a trip to see her. Invite her over. Ask if she wants to do a girls weekend. 
you seem stuck in this idea if she doesn't spend time with you when/how you want or she doesn't initiate she is evil. Just not true.

Sounds honestly like she is just living her best life and doesn't have time for drama.[/quote]

She lives 3,000 miles from me. I went out to see her over the summer. She has never come to visit, except for my wedding. [/quote]

Honestly she has been trying to tell you for years then, that she is just not into these family events. 
If you want her there just keep an open invitation but stop with the pressure, guilt and drama. It is quite honestly a turnoff.[/quote]

I haven't pressured her at all. I've actually barely ever talked to her about this stuff. I did tell her I'm excited to see her this holiday season, but I've never confronted her about not coming to family things.

She just never sees us. Never spends time with us, even outside the holidays.

To answer another PP: We've absolutely included her husband in things. She did tell me a few years ago, when she had first gotten married, "Dad asked me if it would be alright if he took my DH out for coffee, just to get to know him. I told him it's really not necessary." [/quote]

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