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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a planner and he is not.[b] I like to clean as I go and keep things uncluttered and he is a bit of a pack rat who has trouble keeping track of things (but is happy to do a weekly deep clean, which I hate).[/b] We both have anxiety that manifests in very different ways (I avoid/deny/self-medicate, he panics). Classic opposites attract. I don't think I would have fallen in love with him and continue to love him as much as I do if we were the same, but we have worked through real challenges due to our core differences.[/quote] SAME! I love keeping things looking uncluttered. Then I'll come into the basement and he is doing what he calls an 'audit' and literally has every toy on the floor and is sorting. I realize some husbands wouldn't do this at all, but it gives me anxiety just thinking about it.[/quote]
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