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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you having to do 100% of the childcare? That does not sounds feasible or fair. Your DH needs to handle either the am or pm shift, or if he can't, then you hire someone to do it. Those are your only options![/quote] This is partly dependent on his job and their income distribution. If her husband makes bulk of income, and leaving at 4pm isn’t in the cards for his field, then this arrangement makes sense. I assume OP already works part time bc I don’t know of any SACC program that would allow a 8.5 hr day and 45 minute commute. [/quote] Some people have husbands who travel a lot or who really do have all-consuming jobs. OP knows if this is her or not. At that point, you need practical advice from people who have been there, done that, not advice to "make your husband do more". [/quote] Yep. When my kids were little, I did drop off and pick up at two different places. There was no choice. I survived and so will the OP. It just takes time to get organized. My husband helped as much as he could.[/quote]
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