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[quote=Anonymous]Hugs OP. I fully trust that you made a thoughtful, informed, difficult decision that was best for your family. I hope that the fact that nothing indicating a pregnancy could be found by the provider was of some comfort. Also, the odds were extremely high that you would have miscarried anyway - so perhaps knowing that you may, in fact, not have changed the outcome at all could be of some comfort? I would offer a slight reframing of what you have gone through and done: You made a decision that really, really supports the whole family and your marriage in very significant ways, putting all of that ahead of your wishes. You prioritized your family's well-being over an unknown and unlikely possibility. Seems to me that's the essence of motherhood. Good for you. Be kind to yourself and don't take any of the criticism here to heart. I think you are brave and strong.[/quote]
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