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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can recall 3 fights in the 10 years we’ve been together and they all revolves around me working too much pre-kids.

I don’t delegate things unless I’m prepared to let him do it his way with no commentary or judgement. I’m not a backseat driver in the car. I don’t second guess his parenting. I assume he is reasonable, capable and has good intent. I don’t nag. When he is wrong, I don’t rub it in I just move on. There are very few areas where I won’t compromise and luckily those are areas where he will compromise. I don’t keep score. I don’t hold grudges. When we make a decision, I move on and don’t dwell on it if ai don’t get my first choice. [/quote]

I’ll add that we have similar political opinions, religious beliefs, spending habits, sex drives and taste in food. The only way we are significantly different is that I am a morning person and he is a night owl. We make a great team. When one of my friends was getting married her dad gave a toast. Her parents had an arranged marriage and were blissfully happy 30+ years later. Her dad’s advice was that in every disagreement there are 3 votes - yours, his and the marriage. When you can’t agree, the tie breaker is what is best for the marriage. I try to live by that advice. [/quote]

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