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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s a bad sign if couple don’t argue much.  They’ve probably given up and allowed resent to build.[/quote]

It’s amazing how wrong this actually is. [/quote]

+100. Where do people get this nonsense?  My DH and I may disagree.  But we do not argue.  We certainly don’t fight.  We don’t bicker or call names.  It’s just not who we are.

We have been married 30 years next month.  [/quote]

When you disagree, do you just roll over, or do you each try to persuade the to accept your position?  If you do the latter, that’s constructive argumentation.  So, I still contend that arguing is healthy.   No way you agree with your spouse 100% of the time and less you care about absolutely nothing.[/quote]

DP. We do the latter. But it still happens infrequently. And when we persuade it isn't with malice and we don't try to bully. And we work towards a quick compromise or decision if we realize we are never going to agree. [/quote]

My husband and I disagree on a bunch of things. I'm pro-choice and he is not. It is an inflammatory issue and we know where we both stand and arguing about it has no upside and will just lead to bad feelings. He's a moderate republican and I'm a moderate democrat and thankfully we both hate Trump. We disagree on some policy issues but we don't argue about them but we certainly have some pretty robust discussions. [/quote]

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