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[quote=Anonymous][quote]All of us own other property and we use this common property for visits, vacations... I am thinking about taking the artifact and moving it to my own place (abroad). However, if I ask my siblings t I will draw attention to it so they will take it first. How bad would be the fallout if I just took it?[/quote]

So then take it. If you think that your siblings will grab it when they find it that you want it then take it first. Its not like everyone will be shocked that someone took something if they are the type to run in and grab it from you first. After you move it don't hide it. When someone asks, just say yes I moved it to my XYZ house because it looks there and has sentimental value. You could add that if you ever sell it you would split the proceeds with them. You haven't sold it so its not as if you owe them money. Just be aware that they will jump in and start taking things from the apartment too. You may want to photograph the contents first so that down the road if you do sell it you can ask for your split from whatever else vanished before paying them.

The fallout depends on YOUR reaction. It sounds like they bully you so expect for them to bully to you. If you don't care -which you shouldn't- then just ignore it. [/quote]

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