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[quote=Anonymous]I think it is fine to just send DH particularly if you have small children. However, do you visit ILs anyway? Maybe the wedding could be in lieu of an annual visit? DHs brother got married a few years ago when we had three kids age 6 and under. It was a small destination wedding in the Caribbean (first marriage but they’d been living together for many years-late 40s- and wanted a small casual affair). DH was only able to go Wed-Sat either way (work commitment he could not get out of) and airfare was extremely high- so he went alone. For the kids it would not have been fun- too much travel and wedding stuff packed into a short schedule without free time. We had no to leave them with. BIL and ILs understood and honesty DH had a blast. I sent heartfelt best wishes and regrets, and the next time we visited ILs town (our usual summer visit) we took BIL/SIL out to a great dinner. [/quote]
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