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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I am sending you endless support and encouragement here. My hear goes out to you and I relate. I have been through so much hell with my parents and sometimes positing here you get the trolls who have no empathy.

I would  report that social worker to her licensure board and at the very least ask to speak to her supervisor immediately as she is doing harm and has the potential to do harm to other. She is poorly trained to deal with the very complex issues that comes with sandwich generation issues and she clearly has no empathy or understanding of the situation. That SW needs supervision promptly and she needs to be taken off the case.

You had her evaluated and the doctor said no signs of dementia. is that correct? This was just recently, right? I assume many meds have been tried with her to no avail? At one point one of my parents was put on adderall with zoloft so she can manage and it helped for a while.

I might get a case manager involved at the agency you hire the aides. A good one can work well with all parties to mediate and move things forward.

Also, if she goes into assisted living, what do they do when she runs out money? I would find out exactly and see how you feel about that. She many not even live to see that happen. There is absolutely no reason to use your own money on her retirement.[/quote]
Yes, please do report that social worker.[/quote]

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