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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m sorry. You found out a difficult truth. Then you found out you did not have the support of your MiL. While MiL taking her son’s side is understandable, I can also see why it took you by surprise to find out that she’s not an emotionally safe person.

None of the interaction changes the predicament that you are in with your husband. You can find emotional support from your friends and your family of origin. You still need to make a decision about whether to stay or go. (BTW, if your husband is still committed to finding sex elsewhere, and you’re not cool with that, it’s time to go.)[/quote]

This is OP. Thank you, the term "not an emotionally safe person" really explains it. And I am pretty positive he is not cheating. I now have a GPS app we use, and I also figured out his passwords to the old dating apps and they are abandoned. (None had a photo or his name so he didnt bother deleting, he just deleted the apps back when I caught him).  He has not even hung out with friends since then besides inviting over a friend while I was home. His friends usually want to drink at bars. We have both recently switched to drinking wine only, on weekends, so that's a start. [/quote]

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