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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, if you tell and scream with every encounter, he will disengage or leave You have to use calm I language vto express your needs. Either he responds or he doesn't but if you are volatile .it's no wonder he's shit down. My spouse is extremely defensive, angry and goes off on minor things. My survival mechanism (since fighting never solves things and it freaks me out) is to go numb. I know this exacerbates things at times because spouse wants a fight, but I cannot engage unless things are less volatile. I'm not doing it to piss them off but to diffuse the situation. Ultimately though I will leave if we can't find a normal, calm way to discuss our differences, feelings, etc. No one deserves verbal abuse.[/quote] Does anything get resolved soon after? Or just left unresolved for days or weeks or left for the responsibly person to do?[/quote]
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