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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think feminism has caused a few issues in society. It all seems a little topsy-turvy at the moment and I'm female saying this. There is the me-too movement going on but then we have unprecedented rates of females lying about being raped and the matters getting thrown out in court. A lot of females at the moment bringing up indecent assault from 40 years ago always in relation to celebrities who have money. It's always about money. Again the me-too movement where women don't want to be objectified by men but women today are wearing less clothes than ever before, getting naked on the internet and being sugar babies. So it's ok for them to objectify themselves. The fact that women want superannuation for time they have spent being a SAHM is ridiculous. You get that money because you are working, it's not a right. If you choose to be a SAHM then you forgo some benefits. Women want equality with men in the household but not when they divorce, they want men to pay them to support them, they don't want equality in life, they always want the men to pay. Honestly after seeing so many men screwed over after divorce with the ex-wife getting child support while living with her new partner in their brand new million dollar mansion I think the system is screwed. If the woman doesn't need extra cash she shouldn't be getting it. And the money women want to spend on nails, hair, botox, fake tans, make-up. I had a single friend who wouldn't move in with his long term girlfriend. He recognised he couldn't pay for her lifestyle. I am not sure I would be rushing to marry these days either. It all seems a little off out there, everyone wants to sleep around. Why don't they just sleep around and leave the rest.[/quote] Do you actually talk to people in real life or do you just draw conclusions from tv and the internet? You seem very out of touch with reality. [/quote] I work in law enforcement so yes I actually deal with the real life sexual assault claims that are fake. One sixteen year old girl falsely accused 4 men of raping her because she was upset one of them wouldn't later date her. I have many stories like this. A lot of one night stands when the boyfriend finds out and of course the female yells rape. Most cases are this, very rarely do they turn out real. How is it found out, the girls usually film it laughing, they are so dumb. Text messages, phone calls, they all get found out or their stories are so changed up in court it gets thrown out within the first couple of days of the trial because they can't remember their own story. As for court cases of drug rape. The females are tested in hospital for the drugs required for date rape drug. So far 0% have come back positive. The stories of child support are all real. The men are living in crappy places and have been left with little. The ex is having overseas holidays and living in a new mansion. Other male is living in a granny flat at the rear of someone's house. As for sugar babies, our universities are full of them. Yes this is reality. I don't think I'm out of touch. Yes I'm taking the celebrity indecent assaults from the media because in real life I am yet to see a woman charge an average man with an assault from 40 years ago. The only ones that is happening to are celebrites and the church. The church is probably real but if there isn't money involved the charges aren't being laid. [/quote] In terms of the financial piece- yes of course they have to pay child support and that causes a huge downgrade in lifestyle for BOTH parents. Two households are more expensive than one. If ex-wife finds a new man that pays for vacations and whatnot that has nothing to do with it. The man is welcome to find a new rich and generous girlfriend & do the same thing. It isn’t the fault of the system. [/quote] And a man should WANT to provide for his child, not leave it to some other man with more resources to do it. [/quote]
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